If you have kids β or care about young people in your life β this lesson is critical. Because the world they're growing up in is fundamentally different from the one you grew up in, and most of the advice they're getting is dangerously outdated.
For decades, the path to success was clear: get good grades, go to university, get a degree, get a good job, work hard, retire. That playbook worked when the economy was stable, when degrees guaranteed employment, and when careers lasted decades.
That playbook is broken.
Not cracked. Not slightly outdated. Broken. Here's why:
Degrees are losing their premium. When AI can pass the bar exam, medical boards, and CPA exams β what does a degree prove that AI can't match? The signaling value of education is declining while the cost keeps rising.
Career paths are compressing. A "career" used to span 40 years in one field. Now, entire fields can transform in 5 years. The job your child trains for at 18 might not exist when they're 25.
The skills that matter have shifted. Memorization, test-taking, and following instructions β the skills school rewards β are exactly the skills AI does best. The skills school largely ignores β creativity, adaptability, initiative, and emotional intelligence β are the ones that will matter most.
Here's what matters for kids growing up in the AI era:
1. Teach them to use AI as a tool, not fear it as a threat. Kids who grow up using AI fluently will have an enormous advantage. Let them experiment with ChatGPT for homework (yes, really). The skill of knowing how to work with AI is arguably more important than any individual subject.
2. Teach them to ask better questions. AI answers questions. Humans need to ask the right ones. Curiosity, critical thinking, and the ability to frame good problems are more valuable than memorizing answers.
3. Teach them to create, not just consume. The kids who use AI to build things β websites, stories, games, businesses β will thrive. The kids who only consume AI-generated content will struggle to stand out.
4. Teach them adaptability over expertise. Instead of pushing kids toward one "safe" career, teach them to be comfortable with change. The ability to learn quickly, pivot, and embrace uncertainty is the ultimate career skill.
5. Teach them financial literacy early. If the economic landscape is going to be more volatile, kids need to understand money, saving, investing, and multiple income streams from a young age.